3/8/24 – EARLY
The DC area is the only place I’ve lived long term that runs early. I struggle with getting places on time, cuz I grew up in Puerto Rico, which runs late. I lived in the Boston area in between, which runs a little late – nothing like PR, but they didn’t make a big deal out of a few minutes tardy at my kids’ schools or even my workplace. I got to be almost 40 years old with the idea that a little late was normal.
Then I moved to Arlington 😆🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻I’ve been living here for 20 years now and in this culture where 3 minutes late for a social bike ride is LATE, I still struggle to get to ride starts on time.
But! I’ve been lucky enough to find a few bike buddies who come from more relaxed time cultures. After all, we have personal computerized phones now, & if just 2 people are meeting up, it’s simple to adjust the time at the last minute.
Beth is from California, which has a similar relaxed time culture (Latino influenced I betcha) She & I have this great thing going where we plan to meet up at a certain time, and text-adjust as we’re getting ready – keeping in mind each other’s needs for the afternoon. We’ve adjusted the time by as much as an hour (maybe even an hour and a half, once.) We track each other to minimize the risk that one of us will hafta wait long for the other.
I find it impressive how smoothly our system works, given that she lives in Takoma park and I in Arlington.
So, to this EARLY culture I say nyah-nyah — as often as is practical without pissing people off 😁🤷🏻