My First Road Rage Incident

[americancyclo]

Glad things didn’t escalate any further and that you are ok. Very strange that it becomes about worth of vehicles instead of damage, or even fault.

[Dirt]

You handled it well, Liz. You set a great example for all of us.

(I’m going to contain my disappointment at not hearing a tale of Liz being the one that road raged all over some poor, unsuspecting driver.)

Smooth and peaceful riding to y’all! Hopefully your next road rage incident doesn’t happen for an equal number of years or more.

Pete

[invisiblehand]

@eminva 11615 wrote:

“I had a bad day and you just made it worse.” I moved my bike to the sidewalk to write down my contact information, but he got back in his car and zoomed off.

Liz

For what it’s worth, sometimes people simply need to vent. Your response let him get something off his chest but defused the situation.

While trying to rationalize it is likely a lost cause, I’d guess that he realized that there really was nothing done to the car and wanted to stop wasting time.

[Greenbelt]

I think a lot of drivers, especially after the recession cut jobs and incomes and gas prices went higher, are inwardly regretting those $50k investments. They spent all that money (or went into debt), and they’re still sitting in traffic, just as frustrated as before, they’re not getting taller or having better sex after all, and you’re out there on your bike looking all healthy and having fun getting to work. It just doesn’t seem fair.

[Riley Casey]

jeez, here I thought my 13 year old Subaru would get me all those things.

@Greenbelt 11637 wrote:

I think a lot of drivers, especially after the recession cut jobs and incomes and gas prices went higher, are inwardly regretting those $50k investments. They spent all that money (or went into debt), and they’re still sitting in traffic, just as frustrated as before, they’re not getting taller or having better sex after all, and you’re out there on your bike looking all healthy and having fun getting to work. It just doesn’t seem fair.

[americancyclo]

@Greenbelt 11637 wrote:

they’re not getting taller or having better sex after all

You got TALLER riding your bike? I must be doing it wrong.

[Tim Kelley]

@americancyclo 11644 wrote:

You got TALLER riding your bike? I must be doing it wrong.

I wouldn’t worry about it. Finding 64cm+ frames is harder than it sounds…

[pfunkallstar]

That sounded like a downright civil level of interaction compared to the run-in’s I’ve had. Be that the man with two small children in the back of his car that yelled at me to get off my “F@#$ott-mobile” or the woman in the Mercedes who decided that the flooded pothole on F St. needed to be more on me (“You shouldn’t have been riding on my right!”). Anyways way to handle yourself.

[KLizotte]

I suspect that when he got home, had dinner, and plopped down in front of the boob tube that he had a moment to reconsider what a snot he was about the whole affair. On the other hand, he may have already forgotten about it.

Yesterday I drove for the first time in weeks and went to Mt. Vernon and National Harbor. I hadn’t realized the GW Parkway went thru Old Town and suffered thru lots and lots of lights (as well as an unexpected “kink” in the lane markings). I also found it hard to keep my eyes fixed on the road/cars because I was too busy checking out the action on the MVT (sighing much in the process). I also got a little lost trying to figure out how to get on to the Wilson Bridge from the Parkway (so much easier by bike!) and mistakenly went down a one way street (lots of honking and flashing lights ensued). Then I was shocked to find out that I had to pay for parking at NH (it was free the last time I was there). It was definitely not a good driving day and made me appreciate how much simplier and nicer it is to get around by bike despite the occasional run ins with stressed out drivers.

And for the record, I don’t think cyclists should be on the GW Parkway now that I’ve driven it with an eye to cyclists’ safety. Everyone, including me, was going over the speed limit by quite a bit and there is no shoulder at all. Seems too dangerous unless they get the speeding down to a more appropriate level which I assume can only be done with speed bumps and we know that isn’t going to happen any time soon.

[acc]

eminva – You are much more of a lady than I’ll ever be. If some idiot jumped out of his car and told me it was worth $50,000+ I’d sneer and reply, “Huh, I would have never guessed.”

I think you were smart and rational, your reaction kept things from escalating. Also, because I know you I can imagine quite clearly how cooperative and friendly your were. I bet he felt ashamed. All kidding aside, I’m glad you are safe and glad you kept your head.

ann

[Riley Casey]

The real moral of the story.

@KLizotte 11660 wrote:

… made me appreciate how much simplier and nicer it is to get around by bike despite the occasional run ins with stressed out drivers.
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[bluejaitucker]

I agree with the other posters that you did an excellent job handling the situation. Also loved Greenbelt’s comment!

What I wonder about: when are drivers going to wake up to the fact that driving makes them angry and irritated???

And that there is NO WAY to have fast, uncongested traffic in a crowded urban area, so we need a better way of getting around?

And that given the nature of cars, driving, and parking lots, it’s kind of silly to spend $53,000 on a car?

[Author]

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