BTWW Jersey–Have New Crystal City Jersey – Wrong Size–Looking for a Swap

[accordioneur]

Tell her, “Honey, I made that mistake because you look so slender and petite.” It won’t get you a jersey but it might get you back in her good graces

[dasgeh]

@accordioneur 190821 wrote:

Tell her, “Honey, I made that mistake because you look so slender and petite.” It won’t get you a jersey but it might get you back in her good graces

Don’t do this. No one wants to feel like their worth is tied up in being slender and petite.

[accordioneur]

@dasgeh 190829 wrote:

Don’t do this. No one wants to feel like their worth is tied up in being slender and petite.

Dasgeh, thank you for helping me reach a higher level of enlightenment and recognize the body shaming implicit in my previous posting.

I now know to avoid complimenting my wife’s appearance, and if I choose to do so, to do it in only in abstract terms not related to any particular aspect of physical appearance which could be construed as my imposing a standard of appearance which she then has to meet or suffer from reduced self-worth. I think she’ll like the change.

[KWL]

Dave – Have you contacted Cassie? When we started breaking down the CC station, I think I remember seeing just one men’s medium jersey remaining. If it is, perhaps she would exchange it.

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