There are two Bethesda coffee meetups that I am aware of, both instigated by and sometimes solely attended by Ian F. One on Wednesday and one on Thursday. The Wednesday one is at Quartermaine I believe. I forget if the Thursday one is also there.
However, they are wicked early (like 6am). And Ian told me he will be moving soon and no longer commuting that way, so they will likely go defunct.
Which totally opens the door for you to create one. There are already 4 on Fridays (long list here and also on calendar), so you might choose another day, particularly for those who might have a conflict with FCC I at Swing’s.